Failures - The Secret
To Success
Come New Year eve and none of us are spared from answering
the popular question, 'What is your resolution and goal for
this year?'
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Most of us invariably end up saying that we don't set any
goals or make resolutions because we never fulfill them. We
list down goals that one might have never fancied in one's
wildest of dreams. But only a handful of us take steps to make
our aims and ambitions a reality.
If you all agree with me about this 'goal-setting' theory,
then there is another reality that I want to turn your focus
to. However clichéd it may sound, the fact that one can succeed
from one's failures remains a universal truth. The path toward
victory is often laid with stones and thorns, it is said. Yet
it is the failures that we come across in our endeavors that
help us strive and win our spurs.
Failure, indeed, is the stepping stone to success. Do not
get discouraged at not being able to succeed at the first
attempt. Instead identify where you have gone wrong in order to
correct your mistake and go ahead.
Once you have traced the reason for your failure, then you
are not far away from realizing your dreams. If you know that a
particular element in your strategy is troubling you, then be
sure that focusing on that element and rectifying it will help
you win.
It is true that continuous failures and setbacks can be
difficult to handle and let your confidence level dip. But you
must learn to face the situation with an open mind and use your
presence of mind to see how the problem can be solved. As long
as you don't chip off the doubts and uncertainties from your
mind, you will not be able to progress towards your
destination. Set goals that are realistic, practical and
feasible and avoid setting extremely high targets at the start
itself and get daunted at failures. See for yourself if you can
achieve the goal within the stipulated date and also check if
you have the means to achieve it so also your strategies for
the same. Then you must begin about your work and get
encouraged at slowly succeeding with one step at a time.
Do not look down upon failure as something bad and ensure
that you don't lose your hopes at the first instance of
failure. Never give room to laziness and pessimism at any cost.
Even at the slightest inkling of slipping away from your path
should not make you waver and set your heart and soul to your
goals and enjoy what you do. Last but not the least; do not
ever delegate your goals to anybody else. You are your best
judge. So it is you who should know what you want to achieve
and how and when you want to achieve it. A well-planned goal is
the right key to success.
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